The money shot – arguably the most highly featured ejaculatory scenario in porn. What is it with this visual?
Men may enjoy seeing some scantily clad (if at all) Lolita kneeling before them while they shoot their load all over her submissive little face, but quite frankly – I don’t.
I’d love to say I have high enough morals to find this degrading, an insult to women. In reality, I just find it.. *yawn*.. boring.
Ms Naughty highlights that this is an opinion shared by many women:
They, like me, wonder why on earth a man would have fabulous sex for half an hour and yet withdraw at the last minute and masturbate to orgasm.
They, like me, can’t help but wince when they see the woman kneel before the man and smile subserviently at him while he deposits globs of semen in her eye.
They, like me, roll their eyes at all the worshipful fuss made over a few spurts of bodily fluid.
They, like me, wish they could see the man’s face as he reaches orgasm, because male facial expressions are primarily what most women experience when their man is in ecstasy.
So why are we still subjected to this scene in nearly every piece of supposedly erotic media?
It’s not the actual visual that I find stale and boring, it’s the notion that the money shot provides ‘closure’ for any pornographic sequence..
While the woman’s enduring carpet burn on her knees, smiling and licking semen from her lips (which have undoubtedly been subjected to infinate amounts of botox), I can almost visualise her thoughts..
“Thanks. Wait! What?!?@#!? That’s it? Are you fucking kidding me?”
And there we have it – the male orgasm remains the be-all-and-end-all of even modern porn movies.. It’s over, as they say, when the fat cock shoots.
I don’t know who wrote this comment. But, none of these women, or men, are captured and forced into photographic slavery. Each one of them chose to pose for these pictures. They disrobed, posed and participated in each and every shot. And, yes, when a man is masturbating in front of you, with his penis pointing at your face, and His stroking increases, every woman knows what is about to happen. She can either sit there and take it, or get out of the way. So, since they, by looking at the pictures, sat there and took it in the face, they were wiling participants. They then took their big, fat checks and cashed them. And if those checks weren’t big enough, they should have stayed clothed. These women aren’t ‘poor victims used by merciless, horny, fat old men. God bless freedom of the press!
Hi Kelly. I fully agree with you – and am the first to disagree with anyone who bluntly states that all female porn stars are ‘victims’.
However, labelling women as victims is far from the point of the post. The point was, rather, that female VIEWERS of porn, may find ‘the money shot’ completely unerotic. As do I.
As I said, I don’t find it degrading, or an act of victimisation – I just find it boring and bland. I’d much rather see something realistic and more focused on the female’s perspective of pleasure.
The money shot is totlly degrading and what kind of plaesure dose the women gets from men standing over them as through their some kind of King and your’er bowing down to get hummilated for their pleasure WOW ( Im excited) !!!!!!!!
1505w: I guess some women do get pleasure from it, and that’s their perogative, but personally it’s not my thing. My point is though, that porn is so male-orientated, when really – MOST women need to see something a little more focused on the female’s perception of pleasure, to enjoy porn.